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good luck projecting previous relationships and experiences onto this clinician... Stealth mode baby.. supreme supreme outlier arcteryx... vans ....
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Statistics: Posted by odradek — Thu Jan 30, 2020 11:26 pm
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I work at one of the largest banks in the world in a "front facing" role which essentially means I need to be professionally dressed most of the times. When I started (first job) and gotten pretty off-hand comments about the way I dress as I was still learning how to blend in with the rest of the folks. What I mean by comments is just "oh haha two shirts on?" or "Bro, are you really wearing those pants in the office" or "dude your collar is way too far apart" or "where are you belt loops" or "haha imagine wearing a leather jacket into the office".
Apparently, overshirts (collar on top of collar), loafers with no socks, front/reversed pleated pants, no belt loops, and fucking prince of wales or seersucker pants are looked down upon. In finance, you don't want to be the guy known to dress outside the norm. Your 50-60 year old bosses will think you're a liability and won't take you to meetings or place trust in you. Before I forget, boat shoes aren't necesarilly bad, but if you're not wearing the uniform which is :
- Dress shirt in cotton with a "basic collar" and in solid or striped blue or white
- Dress pants (worsted wool) that most likely will be flat front maybe with pleats that end right before the groin, WITH BELT LOOPS
- Solid or stripped monochrome socks
- Brown, black dress shoes (monk straps, oxfords, etc)
you will bee seen as a joke.
I hate this industry and want to get out of it literally just because the dress code is so fucking bullshit for men when women can literally wear almost anything they want as long as it doesn't show cleavage, is too eccentric or casual and get away with it. All i want to do is buy a fuck ton of jewelry that i can wear, come in the office with a pair of chinos, a sweatshirt, sneakers, and a dead look in my face. I don't need to "dress well" to crunch numbers and write reports on why xyz is a not going to provide value to the company.
Also, this could just be my Company which is probably a bit more conservative than most. But, i have friends that have also expressed concern about the way they dress multiple times. Additionally, I'm also certain a reason why I didn't get a return offer from a company (Within finance but more casual than a bank), was that I decided Chinos, boat shoes and oxfords 5 days a week were appropriate for the office (which I learned they were obviously not afterwards).
Statistics: Posted by Imfake — Sun Dec 22, 2019 12:53 am
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This is how I attempt to do that:
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