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care-tags.org fashion and friends 2016-04-08T02:45:06-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/feed.php?f=3&t=187 2016-04-08T02:45:06-04:00 2016-04-08T02:45:06-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=73222#p73222 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> Statistics: Posted by popcorn — Fri Apr 08, 2016 2:45 am

]]> 2016-04-06T01:23:40-04:00 2016-04-06T01:23:40-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=73126#p73126 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> Statistics: Posted by Stolsdos — Wed Apr 06, 2016 1:23 am

]]> 2016-04-03T03:38:25-04:00 2016-04-03T03:38:25-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=73003#p73003 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> Statistics: Posted by CheerUpBrokeBoy — Sun Apr 03, 2016 3:38 am

]]> 2016-03-03T00:53:00-04:00 2016-03-03T00:53:00-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=71899#p71899 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]>
I don't really know what I expect from people anymore so I don't think I really know what I want from anyone. When I was really interested in a relationship I'd kinda build people up in my head and when I was with them have a good time, but because of that building up there'd always be something off. I figured I was asking a lot from someone with that expectation. Like, people are only who they are from their experiences blah blah, if someone was organized than I think something must've happened to them, conscious or not, that encouraged them to be like that. And asking someone to go through something seemed more demanding than asking for someone to be something. So it made people more interesting, and myself more empathetic, but it also made me pretty neutral about everyone. Which is nice since I don't expect as much from people so if something goes well it goes really well to me, but when talking to people I feel so much less fiery and passionate, which is kind of whatever but I miss the intensity I used to have with particular people. It really made me question why I feel something about someone, and while it's nice to figure things like this out it's also pretty disenchanting. and if I do meet someone whose nice enough than it's sorta me building up how I finally met someone and than I'm where I was left off.

I think what I want is someone to talk to about all this stuff but my feelings about it are a kind of intense confusion and while I try to make it approachable if something relatable is brought up or if I spent the day thinking more about it and someone asks what I've been wondering about, I don't really get much reciprocation. I don't really know beyond that but yeah,I dig what I'm doing in school so I'm findin other ways to liveee and feel loveee

And while that's been happening, a few people have told me they had feelings for me, and each time I had no idea, and they'd mention times they thought it was obvious but I thought it was just us hangingout. The most recent person told me how they talked to other people about it and how those people said they shouldn't expect anything since I'm super ignorant about that stuff and how I may have become asexual. I thought it was pretty, genuinely, funny since I can see their perspective, but it's also pretty disheartening since that's what people are told when they say they have feelings for me

Statistics: Posted by julius — Thu Mar 03, 2016 12:53 am

]]> 2016-03-02T21:43:39-04:00 2016-03-02T21:43:39-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=71894#p71894 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> side note mental illness is terrible to work with in any form of relationship.

welcome to college i guess!!!!!

this feels stupid to post but evidently i just need to vent somehow

Statistics: Posted by harmsalmon — Wed Mar 02, 2016 9:43 pm

]]> 2016-02-11T01:26:24-04:00 2016-02-11T01:26:24-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=71128#p71128 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]>
I'm young, 19, and naturally still have a lot of areas in my life that I feel I need to develop. I can be a super bad communicator, I have a hard time understanding exactly what my intentions are, lack of organization in general etc... I feel like because I see myself in this way I am psyching myself out from pursuing relationships with people.

Last year this amazing girl gave me her number, and I know she's still around here after traveling in Spain but I let the offer expire by never contacting her. Over the last year I feel like that type of interaction has been repeated several time's to different degrees, where I blow it when someone expresses interest in me.

The thing is, I know there are qualities in me that I really respect and love, and I have faith that others can see those in me too. But I can't help but feel I'm straight up not ready to get involved with someone because it'll just end up as a mess like other relationships in the past have turned out.

What I feel like I'm battling with is the choice to grow "trial-by-fire" or to just spend more time alone pursuing my own endeavors and enter that realm when I really feel ready.

Statistics: Posted by radicalbusiness — Thu Feb 11, 2016 1:26 am

]]> 2016-02-10T19:31:17-04:00 2016-02-10T19:31:17-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=71112#p71112 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]>
(Things turned out alright)

Statistics: Posted by fechner — Wed Feb 10, 2016 7:31 pm

]]> 2016-02-10T05:01:07-04:00 2016-02-10T05:01:07-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=71094#p71094 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> Statistics: Posted by bels — Wed Feb 10, 2016 5:01 am

]]> 2016-02-11T01:11:42-04:00 2016-02-10T04:38:40-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=71093#p71093 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]>

Statistics: Posted by fechner — Wed Feb 10, 2016 4:38 am

]]> 2016-01-23T18:56:46-04:00 2016-01-23T18:56:46-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=70408#p70408 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> heavily influence the way they express their emotions and preferences and losing sight of that usually causes me to become bitter and resent that person for doing something "to me" or "treating me" in such and such way.

I'd like to think this is normal; I enjoy the opportunity of making mistakes and learning from them the first time, but this is a mistake I keep repeating. I have to work on zooming out more often when it gets to these points and reduce expectations for my acts both of interest and forgiveness.

Statistics: Posted by sid3000 — Sat Jan 23, 2016 6:56 pm

]]> 2016-01-20T19:38:29-04:00 2016-01-20T19:38:29-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=70281#p70281 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> Statistics: Posted by Suquida — Wed Jan 20, 2016 7:38 pm

]]> 2016-01-20T17:45:16-04:00 2016-01-20T17:45:16-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=70273#p70273 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> Statistics: Posted by UnwashedMolasses — Wed Jan 20, 2016 5:45 pm

]]> 2016-01-20T16:26:22-04:00 2016-01-20T16:26:22-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=70268#p70268 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> Statistics: Posted by sparkyoriental — Wed Jan 20, 2016 4:26 pm

]]> 2016-01-19T01:30:07-04:00 2016-01-19T01:30:07-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=70185#p70185 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]> this place in ktown called white brick kitchen, good american comfort food

Statistics: Posted by trichomatic — Tue Jan 19, 2016 1:30 am

]]> 2016-01-18T10:33:08-04:00 2016-01-18T10:33:08-04:00 https://old.care-tags.org/viewtopic.php?t=187&p=70138#p70138 <![CDATA[Re: All is Full of Love]]>
Ahah not really, why do you think so?

Statistics: Posted by Francks — Mon Jan 18, 2016 10:33 am

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