ben. i think that's a very good point—i get so frustrated with like feminist/social justice spaces that are highly reactionary, who jump on you the minute you fuck up a pronoun or a small turn of phrase or express something not in the party line, even if you show yourself to be someone thoughtful and open and willing to learn
the amount of pretty cool dudes who get a ton of shit in feminist communities is pretty ridiculous. there was one dude in a forum i (used to) frequent that mentioned that he really wanted to talk about some issues specific to men with more socially enlightened/thoughtful people (many of whom collect in feminist circles) and he was roundly vilified. "why are you trying to bring this discussion here men have discussion spaces everywhere" &c, and when he tried to explain he'd found other communities to discuss certain issues for men but they were quite misogynist, he then got a ton of flack for participating in communities that were known to be misogynist.
dude could not get a break
anyways, compassionate education > righteous vilificationStatistics: Posted by schiaparelli — Fri Dec 06, 2013 4:44 pm
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