by insted » Wed Apr 02, 2014 9:46 pm
my girlfriend definitely bats an eye when i start to talk about buying stuff like designer basics, because i'm just a poor college student working two days a week and her family (as well as mine) are kind of struggling with money so to speak - but a lot of what i buy is just with paypal money from things that have sold, with the uncommon exception where opportunity cost prevails. but i know she doesn't mind too much because i buy her yohji sometimes lmao
the price that i've somewhat normalized for things like t shirts, jeans, etc. is much higher than what she is comfortable with - she never holds it against me or thinks i'm making bad decisions though. every so often she'll say something to keep me in check, or remind me that i could be saving more money instead of buying clothes, which i always respect and mind because she's usually right - but we always have money to go out, i can pay for dinners, etc. and i'm really in a very comfortable pace as far as my spending habits go. i'm much more deliberate with purchases now as well which helps.
she definitely shows interest in fashion, and i've caught her lately browsing margiela or jil sander or issey miyake, but she's sooo careful with her spending that when she buys something it has to be the perfect piece. i'm a little looser than that, and might buy something that i'll get fully comfortable with a month or so later, or just turn it around again.
i have enough money to pay for things like my oil changes, school books, my gas, otherwise i don't know i'd have a lot more jawnz but be a piece of shit.
i fucking love the self sustaining aspect of jawnz too though, because a one time investment has led to months of clothing circulation, without rendering me broke. it's helped me manage other aspects of my life in a sense because i see investment opportunity now, and likeliness of longevity in something.