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whenever i find myself doing that i down a cup of coffee and change locations

-block the websites using an extension like Stayfocusd.

-don't work in the same place that you browse the internet.

-try the Pomodoro method? work for 15 minutes, then take a 5 minute break.

With the Leelah Alcorn story everywhere, I want to extend a hug to every person who has to deal with identity issues of all kinds. The world can seem pretty devoid of true compassion, and nobody deserves to die because they feel alone. I don't want to go on for too long because I think anyone with moral character agrees with me. Be good to yourself and to each other.

How do I draw fractals?

I feel like I'm the disappointment in everything I do

I just want to say 2015 is going to be my year and I hope you all feel the same way. GOT A JOB and going to GRADUATE from college program.

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Having a disorder that makes it hard for you to connect with and open up to people makes it incredibly difficult to actually get help for said disorder.

My grandma almost burned the place down with me last night. I was busy on OKCupid/Tinder/texting and she fell asleep. The neighbors and the fire department came. 'Twas embarrassing for the both of us.

avoidant personality disorder

what u gonna do about it

this is probably really dumb but i just need to get it down somewhere.

i think i read too much into small (and likely) inconsequential actions/stuff and then i end up feeling shitty or confused over them.

Just moved into my dorm a couple nights ago and man this is a huge change but i'm really enjoying it. Also if any of you are ever in seattle hmu

Also it's hard to be baller when you have so little closet space

one of my friends just overdosed and passed away earlier this evening. i feel like i never really knew him as well as i could have, but he was one of the most generous and well intentioned people i've known. i still dont even know how to process this but fuck

I need some advice I think.

So I find out my ex just has had a whole lot of sucky shit happen to her recently (girl she knew from hs just died of cancer, among other things) from some posts on her various social media accounts. And I want to offer her support and stuff because I still consider her a friend, but right around this same time (within the last few days) she has unfollowed me on most social media platforms (we'd still post stupid shit and jokes to each other, just generally being friends n shit). And I'm not sure if this means like she doesn't want to taKk/associate with me or whatever. And like I said I want to offer support cause I care about her as a good friend but i don't want it to be like weird. Idk. We haven't talked alto recently. Shit just feels weird and I hate to see that she's hurting.

Someone please tell me I'm being dumb

My grandpa passed away last night. I wasn't close to him but it's absolutely heart wrenching to watch my mom beat herself up over it. What Can I even say to her anymore?

feel like barfing and got a headache B)

How do I be more positive towards others in life and less of a cynical, sarcastic ass?

To the white girl with the fresh af1s in a black girls body at the grocery market where we were glancing at each other everytime we crossed by, it's my fault for not chatting you up the other night. I was symptomatic and stuck in my head. I hope that gourmet ice cream in the frozen food isle you were contemplating eventually worked out.

no good reason for it to be happening, but i've been missing my prior relationship the past few days

Anyone have any hot tips on picking a therapist by browsing online directories of therapists.

Bela for a Brit I would expected you to have used the correct punctuation mark :S

Bela stop playing grl, you know you fucked up

Why did pleb change to chief whip when I wrote it in the "your style 3 words" thread?

lol, P L E B is what changed..

I'm slowly becoming insane here. this might seem a banal problem but my neighbour's hot water tank or whatever makes this constant trembling noise for hours on end. I've already dropped a note into his mailbox and he came over to talk the very next day, superfriendly guy. I told him not to worry too much, only to maybe look into it in the off chance that it's a simple fix or something. i don't want him to change any habits or stop heating is apartment obviously. This has been a week or two ago and it's still there. Opening my window helps but well that's not a long term solution. Maybe I'm super sensitive.

you have a good soul
you taught me a lot and I always look forward to your posts
you're a great flintstone to me
you taught me how to be cool

I AM GRUMPY