Kynlíf

[ramdomthought]

hey guys gals and genderqueers

fucking is fun. fucking is scary. take out your trash accounts and talk about your fears, dreams, fetishizes that haven't been realized, how you get off, how scary edging is, erectile dysfunction, what to do if your partner can't cum, what to do if you can't cum, how to make your partner cry, what bondage is, how much you like to do the pants dance, how long and rambly this jumble of words is

Talk about penises, buttholes, mouths, ears, noses, vaginas, feet, hands, armpits or whatever you want.

Let's keep this open and safe.

[ballast]

i like vaginas and i dont care who knows



e: on a more serious note, human sexuality is a pretty fascinating topic. i took some abnormal psych and psych of sexuality classes in college and the amount of potential fetishes and possible causes is staggering. after taking these classes, it becomes pretty clear to me that sexuality is not binary or even a spectrum but a weirdo complex world of its own in which we all occupy a tiny part of. would definitely recommend similar classes for anyone still in school, or out of school even.

im too shy to share my own personal fears, fantasies, etc for now. maybe with a few drinks in me.

[odradek]

i had this once, it was pretty good

[hunnish]

someone's conceited

[sknss]

[sknss]

Are you not keeping our baby dwindles

[RycePooding]

Top five list.

Sex is:
1. Fun
2.

[UnwashedMolasses]

Woo! I like sex a lot. Libido can be scary sometimes, but it's fun to play with.

Things I like:

1. Sex (duh)
2. The look in people's eyes when you just gave them a rush of hormones telling them to fulfill their biological imperative
3. Buzzing gay bars and showing guys something they can't have
4. Buzzing straight bars and showing girls something they can't have

Things I don't like:

1. Drunk sex
2. Drunk girls
3. Drunk guys (3 & 4 in a sexual context only, drunk people just around are a bucket o' yucks)
4. Assumptions

I'd love to talk about fetishes, but I'm not going to be the first because I'm worried that no one else will share and it'll get weird and everybody on the podcast will be uncomfortable talking to me.

Also, a question: what is the morality/line on teasing? There's something incredibly fun about going to a party with my girlfriend, flirting with and making moves on other people all night, and reconvening just before leaving to take all of that lust and pour it into each other. While I enjoy the play, I feel bad, because I don't want to manipulate these people, and in a way I feel I'm taking advantage of them. Any thoughts?

[schiaparelli]

[SisterRayVU]

[Stingray Sam]

i've recently jumped into the world of sex (17) it's fun. had a 3 way with a guy a couple weekends ago, it was okay, worse than i expected actually. it was more of my FWB/Lover/Whatever watching me and him go at it. I didn't find him very attractive and i had just been high with him before hand and was still feeling weird. my experience was that it was mostly painful, i would like to try having sex with a guy again when i feel more lust? or attraction to them. We were smoking with him this weekend and he winked at me and i feel like it was the most sexual experience i've had with him. It was so perfect, like the conversation was still going and he was still talking, but he just turned and looked at me and winked in a very seductive manner. it was more sexual than anything else we had done.

[can-]

man I was lame in high school

[hunnish]

TMI following:

Yeah it's gonna hurt the first couple times probably. Also what no one tells you (though it'll seem ridiculously obvious) is that things going in your butt feel a lot like when things go out of your butt. Coupled with the fact that the first couple times you do this you might get the sensation that you have to pee (if you stop and try to piss, it probably won't happen), anal sex can feel a lot like an awkward trip to the bathroom.

But it's also fun so, you know, have at it.

[UnwashedMolasses]

Man, you're not making anal sound like a good time. I guess it's a good thing that I'm in a committed relationship with a woman, but I'm still curious about prostate stimulation. Oh well. : (

As far as fetishes go, let's just say that since some events in my childhood I have a very non-standard relationship with pain.

[purkinje]

A girl I've been friends with since pre-k wants to have casual sex and I'm not sure how I feel about it. She's a good friend and to be honest really attractive, but there's something about having grown up with her that makes me hesitate. On one hand it makes it hotter in a taboo kind of way but on the other it seems a little bit unnatural. I'll probably end up sleeping with her and either regretting it or it will become a regular thing and seem completely normal.

[hunnish]

[UnwashedMolasses]

[ramdomthought]

welll

this girl i met a few nights ago. she prefers to be pissed on to close. god why do i want to not comply with that

[Stingray Sam]

random - honestly that sounds like it has the potential to be pretty hot, but i'd only do it if i were really into the other person

calc - that definitely has the potential to make things really weird if you're close, it depends on how much you value your friendship with her. I'd never do that with my best friend that i grew up with, but maybe that's just me

been playing around with sub dom stuff which is pretty fun, also anal play is pretty great

[navin]

Some stories lol
I lost my virginity in a movie theater
The second time I had sex I came in my gf eye and hair
The third time I hit her cervix or whatever and she really hated me for the rest of the day
The fourth time I had sex I realized that queefing is hilarious
The fifth time I learned that anal really hurts. s
She really really hated me for that lol
And the rest of the times where uneventful except for the time accidentally got my red wings :/

[Syeknom]

Cinemas are the best for pubescent fumbling and blow jobs.

[whinefields]

in a long distance relationship - never really understood what skype was for until we started dating

[YoungCanoeist]

guys i've never even kissed a person!

[SisterRayVU]

[ramdomthought]

alec we should kiss obv

[YoungCanoeist]

come to EL? or i go to GR. either works.

[ramdomthought]

should be in el sometime soon obv i need to make it next weekend

[YoungCanoeist]

i'll be home next weekend for thanksgiving!

[ramdomthought]

bastard! lol

[YoungCanoeist]

dammit....

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