by BobbyZamora » Fri Dec 20, 2013 10:02 am
I've been feeling kind of fed up with fashion lately. I spend too much time looking at expensive clothes that I can't afford (or am too frugal to actually purchase) and I keep running in to these scenarios where someone criticizes something in a way that they very well shouldn't. I mean at a certain point after you've learned how to properly execute an aesthetic you like, isn't it all just about personal taste/preferences? Someone like Bobbin is a good example here- I don't really want to dress like him but he provides an alternate aesthetic and I can see why it's really cool, even though if you place it up against the standards/preferences of certain fashion boards it doesn't really jive well. This applies to all sorts of "styles" (that vary themselves from person to person of course)- dark and drapey, heavily branded streetwear, workwear, sloppy japanese farmer, slim-fitting monochromatic stuff, whatever else etc.. they all represent different things and are cool in different ways.
I mean I really like to hope that people who are in to fashion and really want to execute one of these "alternative" aesthetics (and maybe know how to do so) understand this, but sometimes I just throw everything I like about fashion out the window entirely when someone says something like "That garment is really corny. Basically every guy wore that 5 years ago." or "That looks clown" or "That outfit really isn't fashionable (referring to it stylistically, rather than how well the execution is)".
I don't know if I'm making any sense since it's very late and I'm tired, I honestly just want clothes to be fun- but I keep running in to these scenarios where I feel like people are criticizing my or another person's tastes/personal preferences, rather than the actual execution of an outfit. And it honestly irritates me because of how frequently it shows up and the fact that these people should know better based on their personal preferences and how they actually dress.
I guess an appropriate comparison is a person wearing an eccentric hat criticizing the taste of a person wearing an eccentric pair of pants.
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