Kynlíf

[mc-lunar]

it seems like the currently-accepted thought is that moderate porn use is healthy behaviour for men and women but it's hard to reconcile that with how shit you feel afterwards

[odradek]

stop watching porn that makes you feel like shit. not going to touch the problematic issues that exist with porn, because they do exist, but they do not completely permeate all aspects of porn. porn performers do it because they want to, because they enjoy sex and their sexuality and peforming and they want you to enjoy the product they make. sexuality is a thing and sharing it with someone is one manifestation of that - sharing it through porn, while at first blush is one-sided, is still something someone else has done so that you can consume it in a way that you see fit.

[Yoder]

Hows the sex going everyone? In a bit of a drought lately because of life, going to have some great anniversary love making soon here though!

[alby]

though my sex life is going well and abundant, if sex was a olympic race, i'd be running the 100m. gotta work on that but don't know how yknow. after i go once usually i can compete in an 800m per se, but i'm so weak that first time.

[CheerUpBrokeBoy]

this might be the weirdest question i've ever asked on here

without going into too much detail, i hooked up with someone and i'm not sure if i can contact her again if i wanted to. on the one hand she's 38 (i'm 22) and told me she has 2 boyfriends, one of whom is 60. on the other hand she admonished me for almost leaving without getting her number first

uhhhhh what do

[can-]

what do you want

[CheerUpBrokeBoy]

i'd like to hang out with her again, i'm just wondering if it's more trouble than it's worth. obviously us trading phone numbers at her behest is a pretty obvious sign, but i'm not sure what i'm getting into

the main thing is whatever weird romantic thing she's in. one of her boyfriends is my dad's age? gives me pause to say the least

it would be one thing if she was a college student or something closer to that, because i'm more keyed-in to that kind of social dynamic, but she's a capital-A Adult with what sounds like an unorthodox sex life and i don't want to get myself into something i'm not prepared for. i'll probably test the waters at first but i just want to hear cases for or against. maybe i'm stressing unnecessarily or maybe i'm too horny for my own good. idk man